Anger is not wrong, nor is it looked down on in the Bible. If you read the Bible you will see that God gets angry. We see earthlings get angry and that reveals the worst side of people. If we don't have a healthy mental balance then our anger turns into revenge, spite, hatred, rage, name calling, malice, viciousness, slander, abuse, and scheming. Totally self-centered!
Eph 4:26, "In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,
All anger is or should be is a way to reveal your inner passions. To let people know that they have reached your boundary of what you are comfortable with. Problem is, we don't know how to stop there. We let other things control our anger; if we don't get our way, if you're making me work when I don't want to, you won't love me, I want that, I'm too stressed, I'm unable to talk to people, I'm tired, etc.
So in order to be angry in a fair way, we need to not be afraid, selfish, or avoid the truth, but rather pull our own weight. Sharing the truth should make us feel better, just as anger relieves the pressure.
Eph 4:26, "In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,
All anger is or should be is a way to reveal your inner passions. To let people know that they have reached your boundary of what you are comfortable with. Problem is, we don't know how to stop there. We let other things control our anger; if we don't get our way, if you're making me work when I don't want to, you won't love me, I want that, I'm too stressed, I'm unable to talk to people, I'm tired, etc.
So in order to be angry in a fair way, we need to not be afraid, selfish, or avoid the truth, but rather pull our own weight. Sharing the truth should make us feel better, just as anger relieves the pressure.
Why not start some new good clean habits today?
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