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Sunday, December 18, 2016

Behaviour

Life is full of problems, we know that because we have them!  Life is full of blessings too, we know that because we see others get them!  However, what we don't see is our own reactions to problems.  I doubt you will see someone clapping and cheering when they receive horrible news.  The point is, problems are simply a way for us to build up our personality so that we can handle bigger problems in the future.  But what's the point of that?

Do you have someone you admire because of the way they handle disappointing news?  We have problems in our life to strengthen us and show us what we need to do next.  When you don't understand that, then addictive and compulsive behaviours can creep in and freeze us where we are, so no growth is possible.

Proverbs 30:3  "I have not learned wisdom, nor have I attained to the knowledge of the Holy One."

Learning from our mistakes is what God planned for us to do.  When you don't know that then defeat and failure seem like its your destiny in life.  But its not, you can be what ever you choose to be.

Why not start some new good clean habits today?

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