Uttering words as a promise to others when we need something at the time, can be a trap that we set for our self down the road. Making promises at the time can seem a simple task, but it's usually only at the time you make the promise. Fulfilling that promise later on can turn into a magnanimous project. All because we couldn't say a simple "yes or no" puts us in a sometimes very precarious position.
James 5:17 "Above all, my brothers and sisters, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. All you need to say is a simple “Yes” or “No.” Otherwise you will be condemned".
James 5:17 "Above all, my brothers and sisters, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. All you need to say is a simple “Yes” or “No.” Otherwise you will be condemned".
Compulsive and addictive behaviors only worsen situations, because the only focus is on the prize at the time and no regard given to paying back that promise. The promise made is usually forgotten and becomes a big surprise down the road when we are reminded of our responsibility.
It really only boils down to us being honest with our self and others at the time, then no false promises are made or forgotten. If you're unsure about paying back after making the promise, then you should avoid that trap to begin with.
It really only boils down to us being honest with our self and others at the time, then no false promises are made or forgotten. If you're unsure about paying back after making the promise, then you should avoid that trap to begin with.
Why not start some new good clean habits today?
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