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Sunday, February 15, 2015

Projection

When we feel that people are rejecting us, we need to look at why we feel that.  People may not like our ideas or perceptions, so that is taken very personally.  We can get angry, defensive, hurt, or even go on the attack...in our mind we are righting a wrong, but no wrong exists.  We are projecting our hurts onto others.

People disagree all the time, but when we cannot accept that, its then taken as rejection.  We need to look at the depth of where this feeling of rejection comes from and find its root.  However.....

.....if our lifestyle is debaucherous, criminal, unethical, unfair, non-commital, uncaring, gross, or even unBiblical, then we can expect far more rejection.  There are far fewer people in this world who can't even handle the thought of a lifestyle like that, let alone have you exhibit it publically.

Self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices allow us to understand that the cause of rejection is problably because of our lifestyle and how we project that onto others unfairly.


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