Inconsiderate

Is it something we do out of some sort of compulsion?  Is it deliberate, directed at someone or people in general?  Most likely it's because we are so focused on our own wants, desires, and needs that cause us to live in ways that hurt other people.  Basically we are oblivious to the hurt we cause.

Another side to this is that we are so overwhelmed with the weight of the world around us that causes us to live a entombed life.  We have enough of our own hurts so we just can't handle anymore.  It's a recoil from all our troubles that makes us choose a world free of external disturbance.

The 3rd side of this is that we may feel others inconsiderate behaviors when in reality none exist.  We just can't take rejection of any kind, so it's always someone else's fault that we feel the way we do.

Hebrews 12:14 tells us: Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.

I think this means to give others a break.

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Deception

When you speak one way about your life, and live a very different way in private. Telling loved one's how much they mean to you, but then slipping off to a casual relationship with someone else you barely know. The focus being drugs, alcohol, sexual, or criminal.  It might even be for the quiet you receive trying to escape the realities of life.  Any way that you look at it, it's still deception.  The next morning, it's back to normal, living the straight life with the one you say you adore. 

The only time you'll stop deceiving is when the pain you create in others is finally greater than your own. Why do you think you can have it both ways?  There's plenty of verses condemning that type of behaviour, and a few speaking of blessings.


James 1:12, Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.

So I guess depending on our behaviour we will receive more blessings or curses?

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Boundaries

 It's not easy receiving discipline, nor is it much fun giving it.  It's really only necessary when we reach a known boundary and pass it, knowing full well that there may be consequences.  Sometimes we may be naive enough to believe that it doesn't apply to us, but we realize it does after the fact.  Every stumble in an addictive life is us falling, jumping, crawling, walking, or running over a certain boundary that we keep repeating.  The discipline never changes and for some reason, neither does our thought patterns.  Why can't we just respect that boundary and live a happy life??  If we can't do it for us, then how about helping someone else out instead?  Because we will be held accountable for our actions when we get to Heaven.

Proverbs 10:17 "Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray."

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Control

Most of us have been told to control ourself, in some shape or fashion, and that's usually out of concern for us looking like fools because our our actions.  Others because they act out in unacceptable fashion in innocent or criminal ways and have never been taught that growing up.

Some of us have never heard the word control because we were in a crowd of individuals who vehemently oppose control of every fashion.  It's funny but those people who oppose control are usually the biggest control freaks!!  Everything has to be their way or everyone is going to suffer.  Even if they did hear it, they would ignore it, but God way bigger plans than anything on earth as He said in Isaiah 65:1,
“I was found by those who did not seek me;
I revealed myself to those who did not ask for me.”

Maybe we just need to control our enthusiasm now?  

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Enduring Hardship

Finding peace in ongoing hardship is something that we cannot do on our own.  We may think we have the power to do that, but in reality we achieve that peace by simply releasing control, which happens to be a gift from God.  We are told that in every hardship God will provide an out for us if we surrender our power to God.  An unusual silence come over us when these hardship continue, they just don't seem that important any longer.  You start viewing the perpetrator as an uncontrolled child, and the situation as a kindergarten movie.

You start to feel sorry for someone like that and wish that you could instruct them on the proper way to deal with their stress, but you can't.  They have to learn that on their own.  God will help them experience it, don't you worry about that.

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Behaviour #1

No one can explain why we are on this planet.  Science can surmise how we got here but it has no theory as to our own individual existence, our mind with it's processing power and how it differs from animals.  They believe we were just luckier than the animals.

The Bible states how all this happened, but sometimes because of our past hurts, we avoid the possibility of a father figure, refusing the authority of someone in charge of us all.  In reality, we just want to be in control.  We didn't have any control when we were hurt in the past, but now we have that option.  A shield that will protect us from that ever happening again.  We are only locking God and His healing power out by trying to do it all on our own.  Recipe #1 for addictive behaviour.

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Patiently Waiting

We know that when we are standing in front of God that our entire life will flash before us, we will be held accountable for everything we have said and done, be they good or bad.  Everyone on earth will be standing there whether they believe in God or not.  Wouldn't it be nice if all we saw was the good things we had said and done?  The words "well done good and faithful servant".

There is a way for that to happen and it is to confess our sins right now, here on earth.  Sharing our troublesome and sorrowful tales with someone you trust and admitting our wrongs to God.  If we take the time to do this now then God won't have to force us to do it while standing in front of Him.

The time of patiently waiting is over, now is the time to confess our sins and accept Jesus Christ, because Jesus will tell God what a good job we have done on earth....or NOT.

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