Who Am I

Through time God speaks to us individually.  We may not believe it, hear it, or understand it, but if we had an inside view of what our life looks like to God, or even an outsiders view, then we could heal ourself from all emotional issues. Being healed from addictive and compulsive behaviours consists of nothing more than understanding what our problem is, who we are without the problem, and how to deal with the problem that never goes away.  We just need to learn how to control ourself around the problem. 

1 Peter 1:14 As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance.

Knowledge about these problems helps us to win over the problem.  We struggle without this knowledge but when we turn our life over to Christ a wonderful insight comes with it....knowing that we are a unique individual who simply has a problem and NOT a problem individual. 

Believe it or not...that is the gift of Christmas!!  Covering up our problems causes us to try to diminish Christmas all together!!

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Behaviour

Life is full of problems, we know that because we have them!  Life is full of blessings too, we know that because we see others get them!  However, what we don't see is our own reactions to problems.  I doubt you will see someone clapping and cheering when they receive horrible news.  The point is, problems are simply a way for us to build up our personality so that we can handle bigger problems in the future.  But what's the point of that?

Do you have someone you admire because of the way they handle disappointing news?  We have problems in our life to strengthen us and show us what we need to do next.  When you don't understand that, then addictive and compulsive behaviours can creep in and freeze us where we are, so no growth is possible.

Proverbs 30:3  "I have not learned wisdom, nor have I attained to the knowledge of the Holy One."

Learning from our mistakes is what God planned for us to do.  When you don't know that then defeat and failure seem like its your destiny in life.  But its not, you can be what ever you choose to be.

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Self Deception

In the midst of every act of disobedience we commit, there is a small but tiny catch that holds us accountable for our actions.  We act out our compulsive or addictive behaviours only after we have decided to do so.  Every time, we are reminded in our conscience that what we are doing is wrong, but we choose to gloss over that small voice that is trying to guide us in the right direction.  The damage done to us in our life tricks us into thinking that the enjoyment of the moment is a far better thing than security in the long run.  That's the basis of an addiction or compulsive behaviour. 

Hebrews 8:10 "I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts.

We know this verse is true!!  Its hard to admit that we don't first think about the things we do wrong and do them anyway.  The problem is, after a while of refusing to listen to the voice it eventually goes away.  Leaving us thinking that what we are doing is alright....but deep down we know better.

That voice is not our imagination, its the essence of God trying to protect us.

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Tares

When we try to live a life free from addictive and compulsive behaviours, satan sends people disguised as righteous people. These are known as Tares in the Bible. "Weeds" that try to confound the truth, create discouragement, and build divisiveness, all in an effort to make us fall. These false profits only aim is the failure of God's chosen, to get you to lose faith!!  Half the time they dont even know they are doing it, thinking they are doing God's will. 

You see, they live by the law, and if satan can get you to live by the law then you will have little faith.  Jesus said; "you can't serve two masters", while that verse refers to money, this also applies to everything in life.

Romans 7:6  But now, by dying to what once bound us, we have been released from the law so that we serve in the new way of the Spirit, and not in the old way of the written code.

If we have faith first, then we will want to live according to the law.  By living and teaching according to the law, it's impossible to please God, because you have no faith.  Faith is given to us, while the law forces us to build a so-called faith!

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Ownership

I heard a TV evangelist saying that praying for something will only set the stage to receiving it.  The next part is that you have to go get it.  The world has a "Poor Me" attitude, thinking that all we have to do is pray our life away and not do anything to improve it, but simply sit back and receive it.  Nothing could be further from the truth...unless God truly wants to bless you for some reason.

Jesus said in John 14:12, "Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father."

Taking ownership of the things you hope for doesn't mean go out and steal them, that's not what Jesus did!  He tells us that if we have faith as small as a mustard seed that we can move mountains, in other words we need to put some effort into it.

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Giving Up

Can mean a lot of things! Giving up on your dreams, people, your diet, hobbies, etc.  But it can also mean that you are giving up on life...or even God!  Getting to that point a sense of hopelessness can begin to take hold.  When you have no hope addiction can set in.  We can lower our standards, be easily led into debaucherous and heinous lifestyles.  We can be led away from anything safe and put ourselves on the edge.....

2 Chronicles 15:7, "But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.”

Every single thing we do to help others in the name of God, we will be rewarded; the Bible says 10 times, 50 times, 100 times more.  The key is putting others first and by doing that we don't have time to focus on our hopelessness.

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Negativity

Its so easy to see ourself as the standard of excellence.  Finding the middle ground of acceptable behaviour sometimes takes a lifetime of trial and error. The easiest action to fall into is negativity. It's either learned behaviour or we just don't see the blessings in any situation.  We can't see past our own life and pain.  Negativity is an addiction!! A very lonely dark place to exist, and nobody wants to be around you.

1Peter 3:9  Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.

I believe the Old Testament says it this way: "an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth".  Or the 21st century version: "Pay it forward".  In other words we will receive what we give. If we bless others instead of cursing, then it will come back around to us as a blessing when we least expect it.

Negativity keeps us trapped in a cycle of spewing our hidden pain on others, without revealing the real problem!!  So yes, negativity is a very real addiction.

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