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Sunday, August 24, 2014

Understanding Release

People finally stop doing a certain sin & Jesus cast out demons regularly.  What's the common denominator; whether we choose or are freed from a certain lifestyle?

It's understanding that we are doing wrong and if we continue we will go deeper and further into that lifestyle.  Further away from the light and whats right in God's plan. 

The Bible tells us that the "scales were removed from their eyes" & "their eyes were opened" and "your faith has set you free".  It also says that "the truth will set you free"!  These all relate to education and seeing the truth.  What it doesn't talk about is our choices which are keeping us in the lifestyle we abhor.  If we like the smallest thing about our favorite sin, then it will act like an anchor keeping our eyes blinded to the truth and stuck in our sin.

Self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices teach us that we have to want total freedom or the demons will come back stronger than ever!

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Sunday, August 17, 2014

Living Friendship

Being told that you're doing wrong can seem hurtful.  But look at it this way; would you rather have a friend tell you face to face that you screwed up?  Or... have an enemy talk about you behind your back?  There's an awful lot of people who say they are your friend, but have ulterior motives or they're not very brave.

There's something to be said for a courageous friend who can openly talk to you.  They obviously have your best interests at heart.  They dispel rumors about you by asking you about them.  There's not many of those people around is there?  So when you find one, treat them with the respect that they showed you. 

Prov 27:5 An open rebuke is better than hidden love!

Self-Help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices teach us to look at the person and discuss their sins with them, not talk about them. 


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Sunday, August 10, 2014

Your Mistakes

Sometimes when we make mistakes we view that as a personal failure, a slice of proof that we are unintelligent or unteachable.  That is simply a lie that we perceive as true because other people don't have trouble with the things we do.  That part is true!!  Other people have problems with other things we find simple.  But this is pointless, lets talk about the reason!!

Fear of being ridiculed or labeled as stupid, drives us into despair.  We may view ourself as unworthy in God's eyes.  We fail doing something once and then give up.  So after that we have to act tough, be indifferent, use, drink, hang with the crowd we think fits us, or worse, sell ourselves.  Could you imagine if babies only tried walking once and then gave up?  Lol

Mistakes are inevitable, so the Bible tells us , and self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices show us that it takes time to perfect anything.  So mistakes are simply something to learn from, not hide or avoid.


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Sunday, August 3, 2014

Empathy

Its something we all seek to a greater or lesser degree!

What is it really?  Its not something you need a PHD for.  You don't have to be good at math, or be methodical, or efficient.  You don't need perfect eyesight, be athletic or beautiful. Money, power, or prestige don't matter at all. Your color, ethnicity, and intelligence have little to do with it.

It is simply understanding!!  You need it and I need it.  We need to receive it and we need to give it!!  But most importantly, we need to show it and teach it too!  Chaos exists because we are ignorant to the fact that understanding would clear ALL transgressions.


Self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices give us tools to understand the inner working of those around us and vice-versa.



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Sunday, July 27, 2014

Tricky Maneuvers

We watch people sail through life, seemingly stepping around obstacles, bowling over problems, and out running traps.  But we smack into these obstacles, get rolled over, and trampled.  Why?

It's all about education!  We haven't figured out just yet that we can do all those things that other people do to avoid trouble.  We haven't learned that we need to work now so we can party later.We may see our future like a train light coming towards us in a dark tunnel.  Those stealthy people see their future as a vast open natural field with them being the train light.  While we stressfuly party under the pin light in the dark, they work hard in broad daylight so they can party later.  That's the difference.

Self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices give us ways of pulling the blinders off so we can properly see where we are going.


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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Purpose of Learning

Why do we need to learn things about how society acts?  Why should we conform to the laws of the land, or for that matter, "the laws of God"?

Welllll...The habits of a healthy society are the very ones we abandon under stress.  Chances are these things are our fault, I mean we had a pretty good idea of what is right or wrong but chose wrong anyway!! Why?  When you grow up in chaos, its hard to live in a law biding society.

I guess that brings us back to why do we need to learn how society acts?  Maybe we just need to prove it to ourselves that the law of the land stands, because good people want it that way.  Truth be told: we didn't have a good teacher or we were left on our own and now seeking attention.

Self-help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices teach us to respect; people, laws, customs, but more-so, the Word of God!




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Sunday, July 13, 2014

Plain Old Hatred

You have to look at why you hate someone.  It's usually because they remind you of you!!  Their mannerism are mirrored and shockingly reveal our mannerism.  We just don't like what we see.  So if we aren't honest with ourselves, we ignore, avoid, and criticize them.  That way we don't really need to acknowledge those horrible traits in us.  Projecting those unpleasantries gives us a...well...security blanket that makes us comfortable with no reason to change, because now its someone elses problem!!  I am who I am, but they are way worse.

Shunning our own failings is an addictive and compulsive behaviour.

Self Help groups like Celebrate Recovery & Life's Healing Choices help us to clean the mirror.


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